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Setting Boundaries: Empowering Yourself in Your Small Business

Behind the Mirror: A Journey into Authentic Beauty with Paje Honor


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Welcome to Behind the Mirror: A Journey into Authentic Beauty with Paje Honor. Today, I'm talking about setting boundaries and empowering yourself in business. With 17 years of expertise in bridal and special event beauty, I have encountered my fair share of challenges and triumphs. Today, I want to delve into a topic that is close to my heart: the vital role of setting boundaries within your small business and how to stand firm without compromising your self-worth. Join me as we explore the importance of setting boundaries to empower yourself in the face of clients and others who may test those boundaries.


  1. Recognizing the Power of Boundaries: Boundaries are not just arbitrary rules; they are essential pillars of a healthy and thriving business. Setting boundaries means acknowledging your needs, respecting your time, and ensuring that your well-being is prioritized. Embrace the realization that your self-worth is not tied to pleasing everyone but rather to valuing your own expertise and the unique services you provide.

  2. Establishing Clear Policies: Transparency is key to a successful business-client relationship. By creating well-defined policies, you communicate your expectations from the outset, helping clients understand the parameters within which you operate. Whether it's a cancellation policy, punctuality expectations, or your commitment to cruelty-free products, clearly communicate these boundaries to avoid any misunderstandings.

  3. Communicating Boundaries with Grace: Effectively expressing your boundaries doesn't mean being harsh or dismissive. Remember, you can be both firm and kind simultaneously. Empathy and understanding can go a long way in maintaining positive relationships. Be tactful in explaining the reasoning behind your boundaries, emphasizing the importance of upholding your values and the quality of service you provide.

  4. Respecting Your Own Time: As a small business owner, your time is precious. It's crucial to set realistic working hours, establish response times, and stick to them. This communicates to your clients and associates that you value your own time, and in turn, they will come to respect it as well. Remember, respecting your boundaries allows you to provide the best service possible.

  5. Identifying Red Flags: Not all clients will respect your boundaries, and it's crucial to identify the red flags early on. If a potential client consistently disregards your policies or exhibits disrespectful behavior, it may be necessary to reevaluate whether working with them aligns with your values and goals. Remember, quality over quantity is key, and protecting your mental and emotional well-being is non-negotiable.


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In the world of small business, setting boundaries is an act of self-preservation and empowerment. By valuing your expertise and the unique services you offer, you establish a foundation of respect and professionalism. Remember, it's not about being inflexible or harsh; it's about ensuring your own well-being while maintaining exceptional service. Embrace your innate strength, be assertive yet empathetic, and let your boundaries be the catalyst for the growth and success of your small business. You deserve it

Thanks for joining me in discussing the importance of setting boundaries and empowering yourself in business. Stay tuned for more insightful blog posts where we explore various topics related to beauty, professionalism, and cruelty-free practices. Together, let's create a community that embraces kindness, empathy, and the power of setting boundaries in both our personal and professional lives!


Until next time, my fellow beauty enthusiasts!


With love and brushes,

Paje Honor

2 comentarios


Invitado
07 jun 2023

Paje this is very inspirational and a wonderful guideline to everyone on life/work balance. If it's okay with you I am going to print a copy to bring to my friend and hairdresser of 28 years. She's a wonderful person who way too often forgives those who don't respect her time. I really enjoy seeing your beautiful clients. You are a master at your craft.

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Paje Honor
07 jun 2023
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Awww, this was so amazing to read, thank you so incredibly much for taking the time to read this as well as comment! I would be honoured if you did that for your friend. I was once just like that, and learning about the importance of boundaries was life changing in the best way possible! Thanks again! 🩷🙏🏽

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